Posted in 2023, Books

My Bathroom Book

Don’t we all have one? That book that remains in the bathroom to pass the time while your <ahem> “contemplating life”?

This is mine.

It has a wide collection of books – classics, old, recent, obscure, and popular. They are short entries that tell where the author got their inspiration.

I every time I read from it I think, “I need to make a list of the books I want to read.” But then I put it down and don’t remember until I pick it back up again!

Posted in 2023, Tattoos, Writing

This Is Scheduled!

Daily writing prompt
What tattoo do you want and where would you put it?

This is going on my side next Thursday! I have a variety of tattoos in various places on my body. I have a wonderful tattoo artist and her talent (she did this one), just makes me want to get more!

As a Taurus, I’m an earth sign and this just brings that to me. I can’t wait!

Posted in 2023, life, Writing

It’s Why I Don’t Need Cards

What was the best compliment you’ve received?

My husband is the person who gives me the best compliments. I have a hard time saying what I really feel, but he has no problem with it.

The best compliment I received was when he told me I was a wonderful wife and an even better mother. It was just the other day so maybe that’s why it’s fresh in my mind but it struck me as so kind and loving.

Posted in 2023, Goals, Writing

I’m Hopping on a Bike…..

You’re going on a cross-country trip. Airplane, train, bus, car, or bike?

I don’t care how old I am, my dream has always been to do a long-distance bike ride. Cross-country? Sure!

I’ve always loved riding my bike. I love being outside and riding a bike is faster than walking!

Sign me up!

Posted in 2023, life, Writing

I Feel Pretty Darn Confident!

How would you rate your confidence level?

I would rate my confidence at 9 to 9.5. I would never declare myself perfect!

After 23 years, I’m very comfortable with my knowledge of my occupation and I think people trust me when I talk about a project. People in my professional group appreciate the information I share with them, which boosts my confidence in myself and my work even more.

Posted in Writing

I Love Technology

What activities do you lose yourself in?

It was love at first sight when I saw my first computer in 1984. I was assigned to the new IBM word processor and in the same room was an IBM computer. Black screen, and green characters, and it was so much fun to put in the code and create things. I didn’t really understand they worked though!

As the years went by I had my own. The first was put together by “a computer guy”, another was a Gateway (remember them?), and my final desktop was a Mac bought in 2008! Unable to update to the latest operating system, but still kicking!

Not only is it the hardware, but the programs and information available to me, keep me connected. I love to work on my Ancestry account, sorting pictures, and working on my posts. Time just flies by while I’m creating or researching.

Posted in Writing

I Cannot Live Without….

What are three objects you couldn’t live without?

First and most important would be my husband! He has been my Ride or Die for 35 years and is the Ying to my Yang. Sometimes I’m the Ying to his Yang. One always brings the other up when it’s needed or gives them a smackdown when that’s needed too. I don’t mind when he goes away for a weekend and I’m sure he feels the same but I couldn’t bear any more time without him.

The second would be my Peloton Bike+. I have never loved riding a bike so much in my life and the number of workouts available to me is amazing! I’m learning so much about my strengths in so many forms using my bike.

The third would be my Mac laptop that I bought after longing for one for a few years. It has everything I need and I’m finally learning where everything is and how to access things from all my devices and my work computer! It just puts everything I need at my fingertips!

Love to my son and daughter-in-law and family – I’d be lost without ALL of you!

Posted in life

Perfectionism SUCKS

I need things organized and tidy and set right in front of me before I can move on.

All that leads to is spending my weekend organizing and tidying up papers and books and magazines and doing the laundry and cleaning and weekday meal prep and workout before I move on to something that I think of doing during the week.

Write a post about a family member on my other site? Oh no, I need to organize their pictures (and where is that favorite picture? Oh here! Oh, and here’s one for that other person, let me organize all my pictures first!) and research the dates and find other nuggets before I can move on to write.

By Sunday night, I develop that same pit in my stomach and ache in my throat that I get on Friday afternoons at work when I think of “all the things I DIDN’T get done during the week”.

I don’t know how to turn that off……

I say every week I’m not going to let it happen – I even went grocery shopping on Thursday after work in order to have all day Saturday to myself and yet, here I am. Frustrated with me.

What a double edge sword! One half needs the organizing and the other half is like “Girl! Take care of yourself!”

Ok – off to finish the laundry.

Posted in 2022, Goals, life

In 2022, I …..

“I say, the end of a year should be filled with congratulation, for all we survived.” – by Donna Ashworth

In 2022, Between August 1st and November 15th – I spend a week in Maine with family on the beach, I spent a week in California visiting my father in law dying of lung cancer, I spent a long weekend in Fort Collins, Colorado helping my niece select her wedding dress, I spent 10 days cruising down the Seine River from Paris to Normandy and back again, I spent another week in California after my father in law died cleaning out his house. I learned to go with the flow and enjoy the journey(ies).

In 2022, I did some form of workout for 262 days. It started out with Hasfit and morphed into a Schwinn spin bike which lasted about a month before I bought a Peloton Bike+. It has changed my game! I can bike, lift weights, follow month-long programs, meditate, do yoga, and stretching, and follow outdoor walking and running workouts. I’ve always enjoyed working out on my own but with Peloton, I feel really connected to other people.

In 2022, I learned to take care of myself. To put my oxygen mask on first in order to help others. I had spiritual reading in March and a Tarot card reading in June. Both have helped guide me in my work and personal life. I’m still a work in progress!

In 2022, I had some health issues. I had 2 tears (rips) in my left retina that needed to be lasered closed. If you ever see flashing silver and floaters, don’t wait – call your eye doctor! They are no joke. I had some heart palpitations that turned out to be nothing, but I did go on Crestor to help keep that plaque flowing and not sticking to my arteries. The important thing is – I took care of them.

In 2022, I worked in our office but managed to hand off some of my workload to the two people in our office who are going to keep moving us forward. It helped me focus more on the other two jobs I have there! This year I’m hoping to relinquish the client portion completely and tighten up the “behind the scenes” responsibilities.

In 2022, I felt myself laughing a little more and dancing around the room if I felt like it – with or without music.

Here’s to 2023!

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Starting My Day

Almost every morning begins with my workout. These last few weeks suffering from a head/chest cold and coming off three weeks of hosting parties it’s been hit or miss.

One of my favorite parts of my workout is going to it, or leaving because I get to see the moon and fading stars (or planets) and the start of the sunrise. The sight energizes me!