Tag: Easter

Posted in 2026, life

My Easter Sunday

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It was a wonderful day that started off with 7:30 am mass. It was packed! The altar was beautiful with forsythia surrounded by hydrangeas of blue and pink. Two of my favorites.

Father Lane served mass, and he’s a favorite of mine. We were sprinkled with holy water and surrounded by incense during the service. Yes, it’s been a long time since I experienced an Easter morning at church and I’m grateful to be back.

After I got home, I had breakfast and a second cup of coffee both tiding me over until the Easter feast at my sister’s house. Small crowd – 17 people – with enough food for 30.

We stick with the Polish traditions of kielbasa, ham, pierogis, hard rolls, rye bread, and babka, and there is something for everyone! There are plenty of desserts like Hungarian cookies and little cherry cheesecakes. Everyone goes home with leftovers!

It’s a mix of parents and children and one grandchild and as various types of in-laws we’ve known each other for over 40 years and have become good friends as well as family.

We left for home with our care package of food. The women’s basketball final between South Carolina and UCLA was on so we changed into our comfy clothes, and settled in with some leftovers. We were happy with the outcome of the game.

Another Easter in the books!

The girls 1964
My son 1997
Posted in life, 2026

Confession Time

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It is Holy Saturday morning, and I am standing in line at my church waiting to confess my sins.

This is only my second time doing this, and I have never been here during a holiday before, so I wasn’t sure what to expect. It’s busy! Two confessionals at either end and another one up front of the altar, face to face (or side to side).

I remember when growing up, the confessionals were in the back of the church (like here), and we were terrified of which priest we would get! We’d get in the booth and wait because there was another confessional on the other side, and the priest would be talking to the sinner on the other side. We’d wait and get more and more nervous, kind of like today! Soon, the little covering over the window would slide over, and we’d hear the priest asking us to confess our sins.

This time was a little different than the first at this church. I picked the right-hand side and should have picked the left side because I walked over to the room, the door was wide open, and Father Devine was sitting in a chair waiting for me! I’m sure the shock was on my face! Ugh, Face to Face!?! With the door wide open?!? I didn’t even get to say how long it’s been or give the Act of Contrition. We just launched right into my sins.

I’m sorry – is this ALL supposed to be private? I won’t share the details. Let’s just say, it didn’t take long because what I was hoping was going to be a mini therapy session turned into a “yikes, here’s my sins, now get me out of here” moment.

I do feel better for going. I may have been happier if I had gone to the front for the side-by-side, and I know, without a doubt, given the option, I will be turning to the left confessional from now on!

Posted in 2026, Memories

Easter Week

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Yesterday I wrote about the week of anniversaries for this new week.

Today is Palm Sunday and it begins the Holy Week leading to Easter. So although the anniversaries of my parents’ deaths don’t line up exactly, the memories of those holidays that year are still there.

The day my dad died in 2010, it was Palm Sunday. Palm fronds were in his room when we went there to sit with him until the funeral home arrive to pick him up. His funeral was on Holy Thursday and our funeral director hustled to secure a time, other wise we’d have had to wait until after Easter.

In her eulogy, my sister recounted a vision of my father entering heaven, like Jesus entered Jerusalem, with people shouting their love for him, so happy to see him.

That Easter Sunday, on the 23rd anniversary of my mother’s death, we gathered as we always do at my sister’s house to stuff ourselves full of kielbasa, babka, hardboiled eggs, and candy. That

So as I remember my dad today on Palm Sunday, I know we will all think of both of them on Easter Sunday as this week ties their holidays and their lives and deaths together.

Posted in 2023, family, Holidays, life, Memories, Writing

Carrying On Traditions

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How do you celebrate holidays?

Christmas with Grammy 1966 (me in the red/gray sweater, my twin in yellow, my older sister in the back with the scrunched up grin)

When someone says “Holidays”, I automatically think of Christmas, Easter, and Thanksgiving. The Big Three!

Ever since I was born, Christmas and Easter were primarily celebrated with my mother’s side of the family. There was a rotation of where it would be held. I think up until 1967, it was held at the family home where my grandmother and oldest aunt lived. This picture was from our last Christmas with her and it includes me, my 2 sisters, and my second wave of cousins.

Thanksgiving was a low key holiday for us because there was usually a high school football game to go to! My relatives would be off with their “other side of the family” for the holiday.

My mother died when I was 27 and not yet married and my sisters were both married but no kids yet. Our first holiday without her was Easter of 1987, and my cousin hosted everyone. By Thanksgiving I had moved to California but I know without a doubt, my family back home continued the tradition of gathering, having a great meal, and exchanging presents. The following Christmas there were three babies so of course everyone gathered together. When we moved back to Connecticut in 1995, I was able to show my husband and son how my family celebrated growing up!

My house is our old family home and so it seems natural for us to host my mother’s side of the family. We do that every year in early December. My sister who lives in the same town always hosts Easter.

Thanksgiving has become the holiday that rotates between 3 different households!